Well here we are and you are reading this article because you searched the words; “I want Love” on the Internet and you are not alone. Most humans desire love in their life experience. In fact love is a great motivator of humankind and accounts for many of the things we do. For instance a parent would do most anything for their kids, because they love them. Most couples will do anything for their spouse or chosen mate.
Many believe that “Love,” that most powerful force is a divine part of being human. Others believe that love is the most powerful force in the Universe and indeed it often seems so. Is this why you want love, is this why you are searching for love? Well you are searching in all the right places, as you have now come to this article via the Internet Search Engine, which is the most powerful tool to seek information known to the free world here on Earth.
You see Love is a sensation that is interpret as humans, but in essence it is a set of interacting chemicals in our brains that produce wave forms, energy, which are pleasing to our bio-system. And pleasing they are, as when we feel it, nothing else seems to matter and it is suppose to be that way. It is probably a very necessary tool for our evolutionary survival.
Love is how humans interpret that sensation of euphoria, which the brain chemicals produce. This is why it feels so good. Some say Love is a drug and in a way they are right, it is a natural drug built into all of us and it is pretty cool indeed.
As far as Love being a divine gift unique to human beings, well that is hard to say as even felines go into a different state when they feel a similar sensation. If you have a cat you know when they feel safe and warn and very happy they curl up in your lap and purr.
As far as we know all mammals feel love and so it would be a leap of faith to interpret that, which is called love as anything other than about the most natural condition of our bodies. Love causes the body pleasure and helps the immune system and makes all the stresses of life seem uneventful by comparison and that is a good thing don’t you think? So if you “want love” you will find it and it will be worth the searching. Think on it.
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Divorced mom Rita Hardin of Atlanta, Ga., knows from experience how children can be hurt by tension between ex-spouses.
Relations between Hardin and her ex-spouse have been so strained that her ex has had her arrested a few times. One of her sons, a third grader, has not yet learned to read and suffers from anxiety attacks. Her first grade son recently drew a picture with a laser gun that went around and around a world in which there was ‘no divorce,’ she says.
If a parent is headed for divorce or already is divorced, how can he or she avoid such situations?
First of all, get a good lawyer whose philosophy is similar to your own, advises Stacy D. Phillips, a family law attorney and author of “Divorce: It’s All About Control.”
If you don’t want to fight in court, choose a lawyer who doesn’t want court battles, she says.
Try to stay out of court, she adds. “Refuse to engage in those wars.”
However, if your ex is fighting you in court, you must respond. If like Hardin, your ex files what feels like unfair and unnecessary temporary restraining orders or other complaints, you must “wear the white hat,” Phillips says.
“In a systematic way, tow the line. Be the best example,” says Phillips. “When you go back to the court, look as close to perfect as possible.”
For example, if a restraining order says you must stay away from your ex and kids on certain days or in certain places, follow the provisions of the restraining order. Failure to follow those provisions will only get you in trouble, she says.
In addition, don’t move to another statealong with your childrenwithout first checking in with your ex, Phillips says.
“If one parent decides to leave the state, he or she knows full well there will be a fight,” she says. “You have to decide if it’s worth the battle.”
Too often, parents move to try and gain control of their children, she says.
Remember, Phillips says: Parents who let the courts decide the fate of their children are engaging in a form of child abuse. You’re handing over control of your children to a complete stranger.
Lisa Cohn is an award-winning author and co-host of Stepfamily Talk Radio. To listen to interviews with Hardin and Phillips, visit http://www.stepfamilytalkradio.com
